Do you have a best friend who you love and each day the feelings for he or she grows , but you are afraid to take a risk? Most of us are afraid to get rejected by the person or are afraid to risk losing him or her as a friend if we take the relationship to a whole new level.
For a year now I have liked my best friend. I have lots of fun when I hang out with him and I think he is super cute;however, everytime I think about giving him signs of wanting to be more than best friends I get scared.
I am scared that he won't see me as more than a friend and I will get rejected. I am still healing from my ex boyfriend breaking my heart ,and I don't want to get rejected again. I am also scared that if I risk being more than friends with him and the relationship goes bad I will lose him as a friend as well.
As I am sitting here writing this I am going to take the risk though and not let fear stop me. If he doesn't see me in that way then I will still have him as my friend. If we become boyfriend and girlfriend ,and he isn't my friend anymore due to the relationship going bad then he wasn't my best friend after all. Either way it is worth the risk.
So guys if you are in a similar situation I am then my advice to you is take the risk. You never know what could hapen if you don't take the risk. I am going to take the risk in August. So wish me luck.
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