Daddy's girl

A daddy's girl is what describes me perfectly. I love my dad and care about my dad so much. I am the baby in the family. I like spending time with my daddy.

I recently had a daddy's  girl  outing where I went to Red Lobster ,and then saw a movie with my dad.  I enjoyed hanging out with my dad. It was nice just to talk to him ,and bond with him by myself for the first time.

At Red Lobster we shared the Ultimate Feast platter and that was awesome. I loved the lobster and crab legs ,and on top of that my Dad got me dessert without me  even asking. We both shared a warm chocolate lava cookie cake and it was amazing.


After the restaurant we went to the movies. At first we were going to  see the movie, The Campaign, but it was sold out right when we got there. So instead we ended up seeing the movie, Hope Springs, with Tommy Lee Jones, Meryl Streep, and Steve Carrel.

At times it was awkward due to some sexual scenes ,but otherwise we were laughing and  having a good time.  Overall I had lots of fun spending time with my dad ,and I hope we can have more daddy daughter days.

I love my dad so much and I am glad I have him!!!!!!!!!  <3

*Comment and tell me an outing you had with your father, parents or anyone! :)

Best friend Love

Do you have a best friend who you love and  each day the feelings for he or she grows , but you are afraid to take a risk?  Most of us  are afraid to get rejected by the person or  are afraid to risk losing him or her as a friend if we take the relationship to a whole new level.

For a year now I have liked my best friend. I have lots of fun when I hang out with him and I think he is super cute;however, everytime I think about giving him signs of wanting to be more than best friends I get scared.

I am scared that he won't see me as more than a friend and I will get rejected. I am still healing from my ex boyfriend breaking my heart ,and I don't want to get rejected again. I am also scared that if I risk being more than friends with him and the  relationship goes bad I will lose him as a friend as well.

As I am sitting here writing this I am going to take the risk  though and not let fear stop me. If  he doesn't see me in that way then I will still have him as my friend. If we become boyfriend and girlfriend ,and he isn't my friend anymore due to the relationship going bad  then he wasn't my best friend after all. Either way it is worth the risk.

So guys if you are in a similar situation I am then my advice to you is take the risk. You never know what  could hapen if you don't take the risk. I am going to take the risk in August. So wish me luck.

*Comment and tell me about your situation and keep me updated. :)

King

Has anyone ever come into your life unexpectedly? Made your life better? Or Make you open your eyes to things much bigger in life?

 

January 20, 2011 is when Tommie Mims came into my life. Most people would say it wasn't a coincidence. The chance of me getting a Kindle Fire for Christmas then downloading the app then randomly meeting him really wasn't a coincidence at all. I realized that day that this person was supposed to come into my life for a reason whether good or bad.

 

I met Tommie on an app on my Kindle Fire called Instant Friends. The funny thing is we did become instant friends. I met him online. Now I know what most of you might think, "You met this guy online. He could have been a pervert or a serial killer."

 

 

In a matter of hours I realized he wasn't a serial killer or pervert, but I did think he was a girl at first though. His name that came up on Instant Friends was AbssyLight and for some reason that registered in my mind as Alyssa or some girl's name similar to that.

 

So for a week I thought he was a girl, and I have to admit during that week I was thinking, "Oh she is cool, and she can talk to me about how I can do my hair. Awesome!”

 

When he told me he was a boy I immediately felt embarrassed and started laughing. There goes the idea of him trying to help me with my hair, but he was still cool.

 

For the next few days I kept picturing what he looked liked. I kept thinking he was sexy from his personality and description of himself he gave me. A week later I realized my thought was right. He sent me a picture of himself and I thought he was sexy and I still do. Now he will deny it ,but ladies he so is.

 

After weeks of talking to him I started having feelings for him. He would try to motivate me and out stubborn me.

 

Tommie and I came up with the nicknames Princess and King because according to him he was stubborn then I was and I was younger than him.; making me the princes. (I am more stubborn than he is though). We also came up with the idea that he has a black and red crown and I have a pink one. I tell him constantly that one day I will take his crown and rule over him. (I so will).

 

 

I haven't ever met him in person yet, but I once in a while picture it. I picture him walking up to me and giving me a hug. Then we sit down at a bench somewhere.

 

While we are sitting I say to him, "you know King I have been thinking about what I would say to you for a while and this is it: 1. Pink rules, 2. I will steal your crown, 3. Your sexy and I know it. Then I’d pinch him ,and mess up his hair then quickly run before he can catch me. (If he reads this he will probably think he will bite me before I can ever do any of that, but he so won't ). When I do meet him I know it will be awesome.

 

I haven't known him for a year, but it feels like I have. I have learned a lot from him, like I shouldn't care what people think of me, that I should never give up on myself or what I believe in, and much more. I have learned a lot from him and I am still learning, but I know that after attempting to push him away so many times he is definitely here to stay.

 

He isn't perfect, but he is different. I will always care and love him, but after writing this I will try my best to stop pushing him away. Tommie came into my life for a good reason and I believe that was to help me and make my life better in his own little way.

 

I just hope I can make a tiny difference in his life. He will always be my King, but one day I will take his crown and he should be prepared.

 

My First Kiss

The day before he said he wanted to kiss my soft lips soon. He wasn't built or very attractive, but just different. I found him interesting and that made me like him, but I was so afraid to be in a relationship and shocked that he even liked me I was so shy and insecure back then. I never thought anyone would like me or that I was cute or pretty, but he did. It was the day of the kiss and I was so nervous. I told him to meet me by the gym after school. As I was waiting he came up behind me as my back was turned and gave me a behind hug. It felt nice and no one had ever done that before. We talked a little and then time was almost up for us to get on our separate buses. He said, "Are you going to kiss me?" I faced him and gave him a soft kiss on the lips. I then ran to my bus and got on. The kiss was so nice and all I could think about was him.

Relationships Heart aches, happiness, and drama are words associated with relationships. Most people have experienced what it feels like to get their hearts broken like Adele or Taylor Swift. They’ve experienced what it feels like to love someone with all their heart and have dealt with drama from family members and friends. So how in the end have they gotten through it?

Being in a relationship is tough, breaking up with a person is tougher, and moving on from a bad relationship is the toughest. First we experience a first date. Both people may feel nervous like a thousand butterflies have suddenly swarmed into their stomachs. The date goes well and both parties feel like he or she is on cloud nine. Smiling and acting giddly because you feel like you met the right person.

Then you go on more dates and began to form a link between the two of you. Now the game of love becomes harder because the two of you must work to ensure that link stays strong by communication and trust.

Sometimes communication and trust can be lost due to drama, tension, and jealousy. Drama causes tension between a couple resulting in unneeded arguments about little things. You were jealous of a special relationship your man or woman has with another friend. Most people have a friend who they joke around with and you just have to accept it to avoid drama. Yes, sometimes drama happening in a relationship is good because it causes a couple to get through the drama and become stronger, but too much of it can cause a couple to split causing unhappiness.

Jealousy also leads to lost of communication and trust. We experience the feeling of being jealous of another person trying to take our man or woman. Man and Woman sometimes become like animals.

 Their territory is marked and when someone else invades what they see as their territory he or she will fight to protect to it. The “animal” does not want that invader coming in and stealing their partner away. We are insecure will see invaders that are out to steal our partners as well. Friends who want to talk to our partners become time stealers, taking away the time we want with our partner. A jealous mind set can lead to couples, spending less time together, sitting, living in the same house but not talking , or becoming strangers.

A person should be happy in a relationship, not constantly unhappy. Yes, a person is not going to be happy all the time because obstacles in life ,but when a person is unhappy more than happy in a relationship then it needs to end because then it is damaging to both.


Hurting and pain is a part of life. When a relationship is not working out most of us are afraid to hurt the other person by breaking up because we know how it will hurt them. Most of us have been unhappy in a relationship, and were afraid to leave and make our partner unhappy. It is better to leave in a relationship and be single then be unhappy in a relationship.

Yes, it is hard to move on since we may still love this person or we are so attached to this person. We cared so much that we spent money, time and energy on the person. We may do all that only to learn that he or she may have cheated on us or talk against us. This pushes us farther back from moving on.

  Moving on allows us to become stronger, to realize that the person who hurt us wasn’t worth it, and to allow us to explore other fish in the sea.

  When we start to explore we sometimes begin to explore a “fish” that has been there for us all the time like a friend. We are afraid to become more than that and risk losing them as a friend if the relationship goes bad. Many of us to put up walls, and making it hard for anyone else to get through due to being afraid of getting hurt or losing a friend. Getting hurt is painful but it hurts even more when we push a person away who wants to treat us right.

Most of us believe the new person will do the same things the other person did and hurt us causing the person to feel wanted and end the relationship.

We are all going to get hurt by people in life. In relationships there are going to be people who put us down, are nosy and want to know what is going on between the two of you, or don’t want you to see you hurt.

So accept the fact that hurt and pain will happen and learn to grow in a relationship. At the end of the day it is your life . So when someone is trying to butt in just ignore them and be happy because that is all that matters.